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Wedding Ministry Starter Kit

Five resources. Choose where to begin.

Marriage law differs by place. Confirm locally who may legally solemnize a marriage and what the license requires. This is not legal advice.

Start with my approach to officiating

Then use the meeting guide to plan your next conversation.

Start here

If a couple has just asked you to marry them, work through the kit in this order:

  1. Read Resource 5 to decide your own practices before you say yes. Mine are there as an example, not a rule.
  2. Meet the couple using Resource 2.
  3. Build the ceremony from the core order in Resource 4, add the optional sections the couple wants, and pick one sermon approach.
  4. Run the rehearsal and the day from the checklist in Resource 3.
  5. Read Resource 1 the night before.

Five resources:

  1. Wedding Thoughts and Tips
  2. Couple Meeting and Premarital Preparation Guide
  3. Rehearsal and Wedding Day Checklist
  4. Customizable Wedding Ceremony and Sermon Templates
  5. My Approach to Officiating and Ongoing Marriage Care

The five resources

  1. Wedding Thoughts and Tips
  2. Couple Meeting and Premarital Preparation Guide
  3. Rehearsal and Wedding Day Checklist
  4. Customizable Wedding Ceremony and Sermon Templates
  5. My Approach to Officiating and Ongoing Marriage Care

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